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How to tell someone how to take a picture of you

"Can you take a photo of me?" gets you a photo. Two more sentences get you the photo you wanted.

By Goodside · 23 October 2026 · 5 minute read

The short version

  1. Set the phone up first: camera on 1x, grid on, flash off.
  2. Say the shot: full body, waist up, or sitting at the table.
  3. Give two landmarks: where the top of your head goes, and where the photo ends.
  4. Ask for several photos, and say you'll move between them.
  5. Correct in terms of the phone ("lower the phone a bit"), not your body.

Most people asked to take a photo want to get it right. They just don't know what right looks like to you, so they do what feels natural: face in the middle of the screen, phone at their own eye level, one tap. Everything below takes less than a minute and fixes most of that.

Before you hand the phone over

Set the camera up so they can't accidentally change it.

The two sentences that do most of the work

The first sentence says what kind of photo it is. "Full body, so my feet are in." "From the waist up." "Me at the table, with the food in it." People can't aim for a shot they haven't been told about.

The second sentence gives them two landmarks to check on the screen: where the top of your head goes, and where the photo ends. "Top of my head on that top line, feet right at the bottom." Landmarks work because they can be checked. "Get the background in" can't be checked. "Head on the top line" can, and putting your head there brings the background in anyway.

A woman crossing a city street, framed full body with her feet at the bottom of the photo.
Top of head
Feet
Full body
A woman on a city street, framed from the waist up.
Top of head
Waist
Waist up
A woman seated at a cafe table, with the table edge across the lower part of the photo.
Top of head
Table edge
At the table

Three ways to answer "what kind of photo?", each with its two landmarks.

Show them, if you can

A photo you like says more than any description. Before you hand the phone over, open a photo with the framing you want, from your camera roll, Pinterest or a saved post, and show it to them for a few seconds. "Like this one" sets the target. Then switch back to the camera.

Ask for several

"Could you take a few? I'll move a bit between them." This takes the pressure off them, because they don't have to catch the perfect moment, and it gives you choices. Shift your weight, look away, laugh, turn slightly. Out of eight or ten, you'll probably keep one or two.

How to correct without confusing them

Left and right are where it usually falls apart. Your left is their right, and "move left" could mean the phone or their feet. Give directions about the phone instead, since that's what they're controlling:

Look at the first photo, give one correction, and let them go again. A single clear fix lands better than a list.

Phrases to keep in your back pocket

When talking them through it isn't enough

Even with good instructions, they're looking at a screen you can't see. You say "a bit lower", they guess what that means, and you can't check until they hand the phone back.

Goodside puts the instructions on the screen itself. Choose a shot type, one of 127 ready-made framings, or one of your own photos, and the person holding your phone sees two marks: "Top of head" and where the photo ends. They line you up with the marks and tap the shutter. You don't need to explain anything except "line me up with the marks".